Monday, January 16, 2012
How the hell do i leave him(PLEASE READ)(PLEASE ANSWER)?
In my lifetime I've witnessed people who've experimented with drugs at an early age. A few of them grew out of it, but the vast majority of them ended up lifelong addicts. Unemployed, horribly aged and some schizophrenic or psychotic. It's okay to love someone honey but bottom line we have to love ourselves first. Think about your future. Is this the guy you want to marry and start a family with? Scientists have confirmed that in the adolescent brain the area which makes us "aware" of the future consequences of our actions isn't completely developed yet in teens. So what I'm saying is right now this young man seems to be all you can think about. Using your words you seemed to be obsessed with him. But trust me honey he's not the only boy in the world. And frankly you are too young to be serious about any boys. Heed my words me being a man myself dear 17 year old boys know nothing of love. Infatuation maybe, lust definately, but real love like devotion, fidelity, commitment and sacrifice teenage boys just aren't ready for that honey, their hormones won't let 'em... trust me. All you need to do is stay away from him. It may hurt at first to stay away from him but eventually your heart will heal and you'll find yourself smiling again. I suggest you think about what you want for yourself and your future. Focus on that instead of focusing on him. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't let some future homeless burned out good for nothing junkie intefere with the good life I'm sure you want for yourself. The good life that you absolutely deserve. Delete his pictures, his texts, delete his phone number and any other contacts on social media or whatever. then leave him alone. If you find this to be too hard I suggest you keep one photo of him and photoshop or "doctor" it up to making him look horrible like you see those meth addicts looking. Then ask yourself, "Is this the guy I want to have on my facebook page as the person i'm in a relationship with?" That may help a bit. Don't let your mind suck you back into dealing with him for the sake of "Getting him help". The only person who can help your friend stop doing drugs is himself. Dope addicts like getting high. The enjoy it. Only when he stops enjoying it will he stop doing it. But for now I'm gonna ume he's a lost cause. Take care of yourself and be well.
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